Getting Pumped and Dumped-When Female Dating Fails


Getting Pumped and Dumped-When Female Dating Fails

Getting Pumped and Dumped-When Female Dating Fails



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So, you got pumped and dumped by the guy you liked. Does that mean he was a bad guy? Not necessarily, though he could very well have been a bad dude. But here’s the deal: you could meet the kindest, nicest, most loving and giving guy in the world, and he will STILL pump and dump you.

Q: Why?
A: Because that’s what men are biologically and evolutionarily programmed to do: Spread their seed as far and wide as possible, like pollen. It is a natural biological instinct for them to seek short-term insemination opportunities.

When it comes to sex, men are biologically promiscuous. When it comes to relationships, however, men are a bit more selective. Men tend to hold onto women whom they consider to be the best possible choices available to them at the time. A man who doesn’t have a lot of options will commit to almost any woman who gives him attention. A man who has a ton of options, however, will try every single one of them on for size and not commit to a single one. The more relationship options a man has, the harder it is to get him to commit.

So realistically, if you’re looking for a long-term relationship with a man, it makes more sense to pick the less attractive man with fewer options than to try to bag the more attractive man whom everybody wants.

But regardless of who you end up with, remember that the male instinct to procreate does not shut off, even in a long-term relationship or marriage. Once you have him, you are still going to have competition over him, and you still have to be his best choice throughout the relationship. But it works both ways. He will have competition too, and he will also have to be your best choice in order to keep you.

And remember: even if you choose the less attractive guy for a relationship, you can still get pumped and dumped, even though you lowered your standards a bit. If that happens, chances are it wasn’t him; it was YOU. The easiest way for a woman to get pumped and dumped is to be just a little bit too unpleasant to be around. If you’re too mean, too combative, too argumentative, too crass, too rude, too inconsiderate, too aggressive, or too obnoxious, NOBODY is going to want to be around you, no matter how attractive you are.

Date: March 2, 2023